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A relationship app for check-ins, journaling, agreements, and reflection. Built for any structure: monogamous, open, polycule, solo poly. The same tools work whether you have one partner or five.

Anyone who wants more structure in how they tend their relationships. We started with ENM in mind because nobody else built for it from the ground up. Plenty of monogamous users are here too, since the same features fit a single relationship just as well.

No. Luvset won't help you meet anyone. There are no profiles to browse, no matching, and no swiping. It's for the relationships already in your life, however many that is.

Ethical non-monogamy was the starting point, not an afterthought. So relationships, agreements, check-ins, and boundaries all work the same whether you have one partner or five. Nothing is gated or labeled “advanced.”

Yes. The same check-ins and agreements that fit a polycule fit two people just as well. Plenty of our users are monogamous couples and wanted a private, structured way to keep talking to each other.

iOS and Android. The web is a marketing site only, no log-in. Everything you actually do in Luvset happens in the app.

All supported the same way as any other structure. You name your relationships how you actually name them. No forced "primary" or "secondary" labels unless you want them.

Yes. Every person and every relationship has its own encryption keys, so a partner only sees what you've shared with them, and one relationship can't see into another. Your content is encrypted before it's stored and only decrypted to show it to the people it belongs to, or to run an AI feature you've turned on. You can export everything and delete your account anytime.

Your most sensitive content (journals, check-ins, boundaries, agreements, and care plans) is encrypted with AES-256-GCM before it reaches our database, using a key that belongs to you or to that one relationship. One person's key never opens another's. It's only decrypted to show it to the people it belongs to, or to run an AI feature you've asked for.

Four. Critical (your content) is locked per person or per relationship. High (your identity) is encrypted per person and shared only with chosen partners. Moderate (your settings) is encrypted in storage. Low (timestamps, counts) stays in the clear so the app can function.

Your partners can't, and that's enforced at the database level, not just hidden in the app. Personal entries are encrypted with a key that belongs to you alone. If you share an entry, the people you share it with can read it, and nobody else can.

Everyone in the check-in answers independently. Nobody sees anyone else's response until all participants have submitted. This is enforced at the database level, not just hidden in the app.

Yes. You can lock Luvset behind Face ID, Touch ID, or a passcode. Anyone who picks up your phone won't get straight into your relationship data.

No ads, no data sales. The subscription is how we pay for everything. Your content isn't a product.

Everything you've written gets deleted. Anything AI inferred about you gets removed too. Shared content stays for the partners you shared it with, since it belongs to them as well, but your private content is gone for good.

Free covers the essentials: journals, moods, relationships, basic check-ins, and a starter set of boundaries and agreements. Paid removes the caps and unlocks everything else, including AI-assisted reflection and full data export.

Just how many people are covered by one subscription. Solo, Dyad, and Constellation cover you, you and one partner, or you and two partners, with room to add more. Same features across all three.

No. One person subscribes and everyone they cover gets full access through that plan. Each partner keeps their own sovereign account, with their own encryption keys.

You only need one subscription to cover you. If a partner already covers you on their plan, you're set. The number of relationships you can have isn't capped on any tier.

Yes, with a 7-day cooldown between swaps. That cooldown stops a single seat from getting passed around to many people in quick succession. Otherwise you can revoke and reassign whenever life shifts.

Join the waitlist before public launch and you lock in a lower price for as long as your subscription stays active. It won't go up when we add features. If you cancel and come back later, you'll pay the standard price.

Yes. Cancel anytime in your App Store or Google Play subscription settings, and you keep access until the end of your billing period. Refunds go through the store you subscribed with, and we'll help if you get stuck.

Short, structured conversations you and your partner(s) work through together. You each answer independently, the app holds your answers until everyone's done, then it reveals them. So nobody anchors on what someone else said first.

Two, plus a quick one. Daily Pulse is a two to three minute check-in you each answer on your own. Deep Dive is the long one, around 45 to 90 minutes once a month, with solo prep before you sit down together. And Quick Pulse is a fast read on nine parts of your relationship when you want a snapshot. More templates are coming.

Two things. A personal journal your partners can never read, enforced at the database level. And shared entries you can send to specific partner(s) when you want something seen. The rest of your journal stays yours.

A boundary is yours alone. It's what you need to stay okay, and you decide whether to share it with anyone. An agreement is built together with the people involved. Everyone has to acknowledge it, and you can revise it over time.

A view of your relationships and how they connect. You name your people the way you actually name them, no forced "primary" or "partner" labels. One relationship shows up as one. A network shows up as a network.

A shared place to write down what helps and what hurts when one of you is struggling. So when someone's having a hard day, the people who love them know what to actually do, instead of guessing.

Things you and your partner(s) want to work toward together. A trip. A habit. A conversation you've been putting off. You set them and revise them as life moves.

Short notes of appreciation you can leave for a partner. The kind of thing you'd say in passing and then forget. It lives somewhere they can find when they need it.

Side-by-side reflections. Everyone answers the same questions on their own. The answers stay hidden until everyone's submitted, then you see them side by side. Good for surfacing things you've never gotten around to talking about.

A nudge to send something kind to a partner you haven't been in much touch with. The app suggests when, you choose what to send.

It helps you reflect on what you've written and drafts language when you ask for it. It also surfaces patterns from your check-ins over time. You can turn any AI feature off individually.

No. Nothing you write in Luvset is used to train any AI model. Our contract with Anthropic (the model provider) blocks it, and we don't run our own training either.

Depends on the feature. For "rewrite this draft," it sees exactly what you sent for that one request. For background reflection (like summarizing a check-in), it sees derived signals like sentiment and themes, but not the prose itself. You can see exactly what each AI feature reads in your settings.

Yes. Anything the AI has noted (themes and summaries) shows up in your profile, labeled as inferred. You can correct it or delete it.

Yes, surface by surface. If you don't want AI summaries of your check-ins, switch that off. If you want a writing assistant but no background pattern detection, that works too. It's per-feature, not all-or-nothing.