Depth without
the escalator.

Personal journal, constellation mapping, values exploration, and solo check-ins. Built for people who choose autonomy without choosing isolation.

The problem

Every app assumes you're headed somewhere.

Shared calendars. Household tasks. Milestones you're supposed to hit. Solo poly is about meaningful connections that don't require cohabitation, shared finances, or a relationship escalator. But every app on the market assumes that's where you're headed. Luvset doesn't.

How Luvset fits

Your practice. Your terms.

Solo check-in mode

Check in with yourself across all your connections. Reflect on your own patterns, needs, and what you want, then share what you choose with who you choose.

Personal journal

Encrypted private space. AI surfaces themes from derived signals — sentiment, structure — never your raw entries. Bring an entry into a conversation when you choose, or keep it to yourself.

Constellation map

Map your connections as a network. No hierarchy, no primary or secondary labels. Each connection exists independently in your view.

Individual boundaries

Define and share boundaries per connection. Each person controls visibility. One connection cannot see what you share with another.

Privacy and security

Your data stays
yours.

Per-connection isolation

Data is encrypted at the connection level. One person cannot see what you share with another.

PIN lock

PIN-protected access. Failed attempts reveal nothing. Not even that you use Luvset.

Email-only auth

No phone number. No social login. Minimal identity surface area.

Other ways to relate

Designed for these too.

CouplesBlind reveal check-ins and guided reflection for two people.PolyamoryMulti-partner check-ins and constellation mapping for polycules.Open relationshipsAgreements, boundaries, and per-relationship privacy for open dynamics.Relationship anarchyTools that work without imposing structure or hierarchy.

Words for your practice

A glossary built for autonomy-first people.

Solo polyamoryComet relationshipAnchor partnerPolyamorySee all 27 terms →

Trust & safety

Autonomy includes
data autonomy.

Solo poly means your life is yours. Your check-ins, journal, and boundaries are encrypted per connection — no one sees what you share with someone else.

Read our security architecture

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