Your privacy is architecture,
not a feature.
The ENM community has specific privacy needs. Selective visibility isn't paranoia, it's a reasonable response to a world with limited patience for relationship diversity.
Privacy & security
No in-app advertising, no selling your data, period. Your data are never used to train AI models.
Sharing control
You decide what's shared and with whom. Every piece of data has clear ownership and explicit consent.
Encryption
Your data is encrypted per user and per relationship using AES-256-GCM. Partners only see what's explicitly shared.
AI
Strict controls on what AI can see. Used solely for you and your relationship, with full transparency.
Top tier encryption means different things
It's out-of-the-box
What buzzword-grade usually means
Your data sits encrypted on disk. One key, held by the cloud provider, opens everything. It protects against someone walking out with a hard drive. Not much else.
Taking it more seriously
What should be the case at the minimum
The app encrypts content before it reaches the database, so the database alone never holds anything readable. Better than the floor, but if one key opens everything, one mistake exposes everyone.
The secure approach
What it actually means with us
We encrypt before the database too, but not with one key. Every person and every relationship gets its own (AES-256-GCM), so one person's key never opens another's and a single key never opens the whole app. Those keys live in a separate system from your content, and the key that unwraps them lives somewhere else again. All three have to line up for anything to be read.
Every field is classified so nothing falls through
Critical
Your content
Boundaries, agreements, journals, check-ins, care plans. Locked per person or per relationship. AI sees only derived signals (mood, theme), never the writing.
High
Your identity
Name and pronouns, plus the details that make up your identity. Encrypted per person, shared only with the partners you choose. Never used to train AI, and only read by it when you ask for help.
Moderate
Your settings
Your settings and preferences. Encrypted in storage and never sent to AI. Locked because casual exposure matters, even when the stakes are lower.
Low
Our basics
Timestamps and counts, the metadata we publish openly. Only encrypted at rest, going further would impact the app without protecting anything that matters.
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