Your privacy is architecture,
not a feature.
The ENM community has specific privacy needs. Selective visibility isn't paranoia, it's a reasonable response to a world with limited patience for relationship diversity.
Trust & safety
Your relationship data
belongs to you.
Privacy & security
No ads, no data sales, no third-party access. Your conversations are never used to train AI models.
Sharing control
You decide what's shared and with whom. Every piece of data has clear ownership and explicit consent.
Encryption
Your data is encrypted per user and per relationship using AES-256-GCM. Partners only see what's explicitly shared.
AI
Strict controls on what AI can see. Used solely for you and your relationship, with full transparency.
How we encrypt
Bank-grade encryption means
three different things.
Everyone uses the phrase. Few define it. We will.
The default
What bank-grade usually means
Your data sits encrypted on disk. One key, held by the cloud provider, opens everything. It protects against someone walking out with a hard drive. Not much else.
A step up
What it means if you squint
The app encrypts content before storing it. That adds a second lock between the database and your data. Better than the floor. Still one key away from total exposure.
Where Luvset sits
What it actually means here
Every person and every relationship gets its own key (AES-256-GCM). Your journal needs your key. Your relationship's agreements need theirs. No master key opens everything. The level expected from finance and healthcare.
Encryption tiers
Every field is classified. Nothing falls through.
Each piece of data in Luvset sits in one of four tiers, encrypted according to its sensitivity.
Your content
Critical
Boundaries, agreements, journals, check-ins, care plans. Locked per person or per relationship. AI sees only derived signals (mood, theme), never the writing.
Your identity
High
Name and pronouns, plus the details that make up your identity. Encrypted per person, shared only with the partners you choose. Never sent to AI.
Your settings
Moderate
Your settings and preferences. Encrypted in storage and never sent to AI. Locked because casual exposure matters, even when the stakes are lower.
Our basics
Low
Timestamps and counts, the metadata we publish openly. Not encrypted, because doing so would break the app without protecting anything that matters.
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