The structures that keep
things clear.
Boundaries, agreements, care plans, and goals. Tend is coming soon.
Tend
Built collaboratively. Tracked honestly.
Tend is where you put the work into practice. Boundaries aren't rules you hand someone. Agreements aren't contracts. They're structures you build together and maintain over time. Tend gives you the tools to do that without the paperwork.
Boundaries
Define what you need. Share it explicitly, with per-person control over who sees what.
Encrypted per-user. Your boundaries are yours
Share with specific partners. Not a broadcast
Partners acknowledge receipt so you know they've seen it
Updates reset acknowledgements. No stale signals
Link boundaries to related agreements
Agreements
Collaboratively built and version-controlled. Every revision requires mutual confirmation before it takes effect.
Propose a revision, all members confirm before it applies
Full revision history so you can see how agreements have evolved
Categories to organize by type
Link to related boundaries for full context
Works for two people or more
Care plans
What helps when things are hard. What gets in the way. Built from your actual patterns.
Soothes: what helps you regulate
Hinders: what makes things worse
Sourced from love currency mismatches and check-in patterns
Shared with partners so they know how to help
Goals
Shared goals with milestones and progress tracking. Private or shared, your call.
Binary, milestone, or target-value tracking modes
Invite partners to participate in a shared goal
Reflection checkpoints built into the lifecycle
Abandon or complete on your terms
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